Yesterday, i contacted one of my high school friend, not really a close friend, in fact he was ‘one of the annoying person’ for everyone back then. Well, I met him like months ago in a mall, i was with my hubby, so i introduced him. He gave me his card and we said goodbye. Afterwards, i said to my hubby “that friend of mine was not a favorite person in my highschool”.

In my car, i take a look on his card, mmm…i put it somewhere, but not in my wallet.

Lately, i need his expertise to do something that i’ve been looking for. Well, i still remember that he was not really a fav person for everyone, but heck…who am to  judge people because of their past? i have not seen him for years…(like 8 years), he might have changed a lot, a little bit, or maybe not…but that’s not the point wheter he has changed or not on the personality… i learned that we shouldn’t treat people because his past…yes, we might need him someday. That’s the adult world. In high school we can choose to ignore someone or to get close to someone easily, if people said “this is a cool group” we tend to respect them, rather than aside with “the uncool one”. But this is an adult world that we faced now, nothing such a cool or uncool cliques. People grow up and they learned, they become “this expertise” “that expertise” and not only they changed or improved on their ability and skill, they probably changed on their personality and charisma too…

As for me, adult world is way more complicated and MATURE….you cannot divided them to only : “cool or uncool” cliques…they are the same, they somehow live in the same world with me and more importantly, they have to survive in it like i do too.

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